FIRST LOOK VS AISLE LOOK
Both the first look and the first look at the altar offer unique moments and experiences in a wedding, each with its own significance and emotional impact. One is seen as non-traditional, intimate and more modern and the other of course is more traditional
FIRST LOOK
This is when you and your partner see each other before the ceremony. You can do this by tapping on the others shoulder and they turn around or you can go back to back and turn around at the same time to ultimately be the moment you see each other for the first time that day! If you choose this option, it allows for you to get all of your photos done before the ceremony so you can attend your cocktail hour with your guests!
Why you might pick this:
its more private moment between the couple
It allows for an intimate and genuine reaction between the couple without the presence of guests.
Couples often cherish this moment as it gives them a chance to share their emotions, calm nerves, and have a quiet moment together before the whirlwind of the day begins.
Photographers can capture candid and emotional shots during this time.
there might be a better fit for the timeline
if you do a first look does it destroy the aisle look…. no
Cons:
May go against traditional expectations, especially for couples who prefer a more traditional approach to their wedding day.
Some couples may feel that it takes away from the excitement of seeing each other for the first time at the altar.
AISLE LOOK
This is traditionally how weddings take place, where you will see your partner at the ceremony as you walk down the aisle. This is also a great option if you are having an earlier ceremony time! You then would proceed with the rest of your wedding party / couple portraits after the ceremony during cocktail hour!
why might you pick the aisle:
This moment is often filled with anticipation, nerves, and overwhelming emotions as the couple prepares to exchange vows and officially become married.
It is a public declaration of love and commitment, witnessed by all those present.
The atmosphere is typically charged with excitement and joy as guests share in the couple's happiness.
Cons:
Can be nerve-wracking for some couples, as they may feel anxious about being the center of attention during such an emotional moment.
Limits the opportunity for private interaction between the couple before the ceremony.
May require careful planning to ensure that the timing and logistics align with the overall schedule of the day.
Ultimately, whether to have a first look or wait until the ceremony is a personal decision for the couple based on their preferences, traditions, and the overall vibe they want for their wedding day. Some couples may choose to do both, enjoying the intimacy of a private first look followed by the grandeur of seeing each other at the altar.